You said you'd never yell.
You said you'd never threaten.
You said you'd never make your kids feel small.
You replay it all.
The tears. The fear in their eyes.
And that awful voice whispers:
But what if I told you...

I Know Because I’ve Been There.
One night, after yelling at my kids to SHUT UP AND GO TO BED —
I slammed the door so hard, I broke the door frame.
And then my daughter asked me through tears:
“Mommy, do you even love us?”
Her words shattered me.
I stood there, heart pounding.
The silence was unbearable.
The guilt was crushing.
I didn’t want to be this mom.
The one whose kids were afraid of her.
But I didn’t know how to stop.
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Telling myself to “just stay calm” wasn’t working.
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Promising I’d “do better tomorrow” never lasted.
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The shame? It followed me everywhere.
I was terrified I was damaging my kids.
That night, I stood in the wreckage — of the door, of their trust, of my own heart — and I knew something had to change.
But I also knew this:
I couldn’t just try harder.
Trying harder only brought more explosions.
I needed a new way.
And that’s exactly what I found.
Trying Harder Wasn’t the Answer.
At first, I told myself to just “be more patient.”
But no matter how much I loved my kids — I kept snapping.
Because anger isn’t something you control by force.
It’s something you control by understanding it.
That’s when I stopped trying to suppress my emotions and started learning how to understand them.
I found tools to:
✅ Calm my body before the explosion
✅ Identify and understand my triggers
✅ Repair and rebuild trust when I messed up
And slowly?
I yelled less.
I connected more.
My kids felt safe with me again.
Our home felt peaceful.
And I finally became the parent I wanted to be.

That’s Why I Created Control Your Anger.
After seeing how these tools completely transformed my family, I knew I had to share them.
I became a Certified Anger Management Specialist and a Certified Respectful Discipline Coach so I could help parents like you.
And now?
I’ve taken everything I’ve learned and created the Control Your Anger – Anger Management for Parents Course to help you break free from the cycle of yelling and guilt for good.

What You’ll Get Inside Control Your Anger
🚀 Quick, Bite-Sized Video Lessons
9 short, actionable videos (just 10 minutes a day) + a printable journal to track your progress.
🤝 Repair & Reconnect Strategies
Learn how to rebuild trust and strengthen your bond with your kids — even after an outburst.
🧠 Step-by-Step Tools
A proven process to stop the yelling cycle and build a peaceful home.
💬 Supportive Community
Join 4,400+ parents in our private Calm Mom Facebook group for encouragement and accountability.
✨ BONUS 1: The Quick Calm Down Method for Parents & Kids✨

When You Join Control Your Anger Today, you'll get my Quick Calm Down Method- simple printable tools that teaches you and your child:
✔ How to regulate your nervous system during emotional chaos
✔ Identify your feelings and needs in a clear visual way
✔ Choose calm connected behaviors for the future
✨BONUS 2: The No Yell Communication Guide✨
When you join Control Your Anger today, you'll also get my No Yell Communication Guide—a step-by-step formula to help you navigate even the toughest parenting moments without yelling.
✔ Real-Life Customizable Scripts – Know exactly what to say to toddlers, school-aged kids, and teens to inspire cooperation instead of resistance.
✔ The Easy 4-Step Communication Formula – A simple, effective method to help you stay calm and confident in any situation.
✔ Respectful Consequences – Clear, non-shaming consequences that actually work—without power struggles.
Say goodbye to feeling stuck and frustrated, and start fostering real connection with your kids—without raising your voice!

Imagine This…
✨ You stay calm, even during chaotic moments.
✨ Your kids feel safe, heard, and deeply connected to you.
✨ You no longer feel trapped in cycles of anger and guilt.
✨ Your home feels peaceful — and you actually enjoy parenting again.
You don’t have to stay stuck.
And you don’t have to figure this out alone.
Here’s What Parents Are Saying:





If yelling worked, you wouldn’t still be searching for answers.
You don’t need more patience.
You don’t need to try harder.
And that’s exactly what you’ll get inside Control Your Anger.
Because every day you wait is another day stuck in the cycle.
You deserve this. And so do your kids.