Control Your Anger™

You Swore You’d Be Different. So Why Are You Still Yelling?

“What if the words you say today become the memories they carry forever?”

You said you'd never yell.
You said you'd never threaten.
You said you'd never make your kids feel small.

But now?

The words fly out before you can stop them.
And the threats slip through gritted teeth.
The guilt hits you like a truck.

And when they’re finally asleep?

You replay it all.
The tears. The fear in their eyes.
And that awful voice whispers:

“You're ruining them.”

But what if I told you...
It doesn't have to be this way.

I Know Because I've Been There

One night, after yelling at my kids to "SHUT UP AND GO TO BED",
I slammed the door so hard, I broke the door frame.

And then my daughter asked me through tears:

“Mommy, do you even love us?”

Her words shattered me.

I stood there, heart pounding.

The silence was unbearable.
The guilt was crushing.

I didn’t want to be this mom.
The one whose kids were afraid of her.

But I didn’t know how to stop.

Telling myself to “just stay calm” wasn’t working.
Promising I’d “do better tomorrow” never lasted.

The shame? It followed me everywhere.

I was terrified I was damaging my kids.

That night, I stood in the wreckage of the door, of their trust, of my own heart, and I knew something had to change.

But I also knew this:

I couldn’t just try harder.

Trying harder only brought more explosions.

I needed a new way.

And that’s exactly what I found.

Trying Harder Wasn't The Answer

At first, I told myself to just “be more patient.”

But no matter how much I loved my kids, I kept snapping.

Because anger isn’t something you control by force.

It’s something you control by understanding it.

That’s when I stopped trying to suppress my emotions and started learning how to understand them.

I found tools to:

✅ Calm my body before the explosion
✅ Identify and understand my triggers
✅ Repair and rebuild trust when I messed up

And slowly?

I yelled less.
I connected more.

My kids felt safe with me again.
Our home felt peaceful.
And I finally became the parent I wanted to be.

Hi, I’m Andrea Maher.

Creator of That Calm Mom™, Certified Anger Management Specialist, Respectful Discipline™ Parenting Coach, and parent of three.

After seeing how these tools completely transformed my family, I knew I had to share them so I could help parents like you.

And now?

I’ve taken everything I’ve learned and created the Control Your Anger – Anger Management for Parents Course to help you break free from the cycle of yelling and guilt for good.

What You'll Get Inside Control Your Anger

🚀 Quick, Bite-Sized Video Lessons
10 short, actionable videos (just 10-16 minutes a day) + a printable journal to track your progress.

🤝 Repair & Reconnect Strategies
Learn how to rebuild trust and strengthen your bond with your kids... even after an outburst.

🧠 Step-by-Step Tools
A proven process to stop the yelling cycle and build a peaceful home.

💬 Supportive Community
Join 9,500+ parents in our private Calm Mom Facebook group for encouragement and accountability.

When You Start Control Your Anger Today, You'll Also Get These 2 Free Bonuses:

✨ BONUS 1: The Quick Calm Down Method for Parents & Kids ✨

Simple printable tools that teach you and your child:

✔ How to regulate your nervous system during emotional chaos
✔ Identify your feelings and needs in a clear visual way
✔ Choose calm connected behaviors for the future

✨ BONUS 2: That Calm Communication Formula ✨

a simple step-by-step system that helps you communicate clearly in hard parenting moments without yelling, shutting down, or escalating the situation.

Inside, you’ll learn how to:

✔ Use clear, calm language that helps your child actually hear you
✔ Stay steady when emotions are high instead of reacting automatically
✔ Say what you mean without sounding harsh, sarcastic, or overwhelmed
✔ Hold boundaries while keeping connection and respect intact

This is the exact communication framework that helps you move from reactive conversations to calm, confident leadership, even when things feel intense.

Imagine This

✨ You stay calm, even during chaotic moments.
✨ Your kids feel safe, heard, and deeply connected to you.
✨ You no longer feel trapped in cycles of anger and guilt.
✨ Your home feels peaceful and you actually enjoy parenting again.

You don’t have to stay stuck.

And you don’t have to figure this out alone.